Jan 14 2010

Meredith Andrews - Haiti

We thank our friend Meredith Andrews, a singer and worship leader in Chicago, for joining us this morning on K-LOVE.  Meredith just got back from Haiti a few days ago, so the tragedy with the recent earthquake has really hit home with her.  We love Meredith's heart and her love for the people of Haiti is apparent.  She has a new album coming out March 2nd that has a song she specifically wrote for the child she sponsors in Haiti.  Be sure to check out Meredith's website to find out more about her and her ministry.

 

Jan 13 2010

Haiti

WAYS TO HELP:
From Switchfoot's Twitter:   Oxfam is on the ground  after 7.0 earthquake. You can help-please donate

To help you pray, please read this field report from Cindy McMartin and Phyllis Schmid at Bolosse in Port-au-Prince with Missonary Flights (missionaryflights.org):  "This is Cindy and Phyllis writing to let you know that we are all safe here at Bolosse.  We were hit hard, though.  The Bible School building collapsed all over the attic and the office floors.  Students were in classes.  Bruce, David and a bunch of students are still working trying to get the last two students out; haven’t heard noises from them recently so we’re not sure they’re alive.  We don’t have the equipment for this.  We’ve heard horrible rumors of the damage around the city.  Students are all up here sitting around on the lawns, will probably sleep here tonight all of us outside.  I’m typing this without my glasses so can’t see to find periods and hyphens, etc.  Just wanted to let someone know out there that we’re alive so that if you get calls you can respond.  We’ll try to email family now, too.  Telephones are out of course, we've turned off water, gas, electric, etc.  It was a terrifying experience and I know there are many dead outside and around. 

-Largest earthquake to hit Haiti since 1770.  13 aftershocks 7 of those above 5.0
-President Obama asking all to pray and says the US Government will reach out with immediate assistance.  Lots of families in the United States are trying desperately to see if their loved ones in Haiti are safe.  The toll-free number to find out more or to report of Americans you know who are in Haiti:  888-407-4747 for the US State Department.
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Jan 13 2010

Love Dare - Day 8

Love is Not Jealous

 

Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave.   It burns like blazing fire. – Song of Solomon 8:6 NIV

 

Jealousy is one of the strongest drives known to man.  It comes from the root word for zeal and means “to burn with an intense fire.”  Scripture pointedly says, “Wrath is fierce and anger is a flood, but who can stand before jealousy?” (Proverbs 27:4).

 

There are actually two forms: a legitimate jealousy based upon love, and an illegitimate jealousy based upon envy.  Legitimate jealousy sparks when someone you love, who belongs to you, turns his or her heart away and replaces you with someone else.  If a wife has an affair and gives herself to another person, her husband may have justified, jealous anger because of his love for her.  He is longing to have back what is rightfully his.

 

The Bible describes God as having this kind of righteous jealousy for His people.  It’s not that He is envious of us, wishing He had what we have (since He already owns everything).  It’s that He deeply longs for us, desiring for us to keep Him as our first love.  He doesn’t want us to let anything take precedence over Him in our hearts.  The Bible warns us not to worship anything but Him because “the Lord your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God” (Deuteronomy 4:24).

 

With this established, we will shift our focus to the illegitimate kind of jealousy that is in opposition to love – the one that is rooted in selfishness.  This is to be jealous of someone, to be “moved with envy.”

 

Do you struggle with being jealous of others?  Your friend is more popular, so feel hatred towards her.  Your coworker gets the promotion, so you can’t sleep that night.  He may have nothing wrong, but you became bitter because of his success.  It has been said that people are fine with our succeeding, just as long as it is not more than theirs.

 

Jealousy is a common struggle.  It is sparked when someone else upstages you and gets something you want.  This can be very painful depending upon how selfish you are.  Instead of congratulating them, you fume in anger and think ill of them.  If you’re not careful, jealousy slithers like a viper into your heart and strikes your motivations and relationships.  It can poison you from living the life of love God intended.

 

If you don’t diffuse your anger by learning to love others, you may eventually begin plotting against them.  The Bible says that envy leads to fighting, quarreling, and every evil thing (James 3:16, 4:1-2).

 

There is a string of violent jealousy seen throughout Scripture.  It caused the first murder when Cain despised God’s acceptance of his brother’s offering.  Sarah sent away her handmaiden because Hagar could bear children while Sarah could not.  Joseph’s brothers saw he was their father’s favorite, so they threw him in a pit and sold him as a slave.  Jesus was more loving, powerful, and popular than the chief priests, so they envied Him and plotted His betrayal and crucifixion.

 

You don’t usually get jealous of disconnected strangers.  The ones you’re tempted to jealous of are primarily in the same arena with you.  They work in your office, play in your league, run in your circles … or live in your house.  Yes, if you aren’t careful, jealousy can also infect your marriage.

 

When you were married, you were given the role of becoming your spouse’s biggest cheerleader and the captain of his or her fan club.  Both of you become one and were to share in the enjoyment of the other.  But if selfishness rules, any good thing happening to only one of you can be a catalyst for envy rather than congratulations.

 

He may enjoy golf on the weekend while she stays home cleaning the house.  He boasts to her about shooting a great score and she feels like shooting him.

 

Or perhaps she is constantly invited to go out with friends while he is left home with the dog.  If he’s not careful, he can resent her popularity.

 

Because love is not selfish and puts other first, it refuses to let jealousy in.  It leads you to celebrate the successes of your spouse rather than resenting them.  A loving husband doesn’t mind his wife being better at something, having more fun, or getting more applause.  He sees her as completing him, not competing with him.

 

When he receives praise, he publicly thanks her for her support in aiding his own success.  He refuses to brag in such a way that may cause her to resent him.  A loving wife will be the first to cheer for her man when he wins.  She does not compare her weaknesses to his strengths.  She throws a celebration, not a pity party.

 

It is time to let love, humility, and gratefulness destroy any jealousy that springs up in your heart.  It’s time to let your mate’s successes draw you closer together and give you greater opportunities to show genuine love.

 

 

Today’s Dare

 

Determine to become your spouse’s biggest fan and to reject any thoughts of jealousy.  To help set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, take yesterday’s list of negative attributes and discreetly burn it.  Then share with your spouse how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed.

 

 

Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.  (Romans 12:15)

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Material taken from The Love Dare by Stephen and Alex Kendrick, copyright © 2009 by B&H Publishing Group. Used by permission. Unauthorized reproduction in any format is strictly prohibited by law.

Jan 12 2010

Biggest Loser - Danny Cahill

Danny Cahill, winner of the Biggest Loser, joins Lisa & Eric on the K-LOVE Morning Show today. Danny lost more weight than anyone else in the history of the show - an amazing 239 pounds! He gives glory to God and wants to use his new platform to help others. Danny is also a singer and has recorded a song called "Second Chance"