Many things can get in the way of building and maintaining relationships at church, but Scripture tells us the importance of gathering to worship and study the Word. Maybe you have been away from regular church attendance; maybe you got hurt and walked away; maybe you started prioritizing other things, or maybe life just got too busy. But there’s no other place that allows us to build relationships based on our shared identity as children of God. Here are ways to develop consistency in your spiritual life:  

• Define Your Personal Values: A sense of adventure and spontaneity isn't a bad thing, but a mature relationship with Jesus takes consistency and dedication over time. When potential alternative plans come up, remember that your relationship with God is the bedrock that all your other relationships are built on.  
• Make Intentional Connections: Church isn't just a place that you go to hear a sermon. Church is a body of believers, and that means that you won't see the fruit of attending church until you immerse yourself in its community. Sometimes that can be as simple as spending time with other attendees doing fun extracurricular activities outside of church. You could start by inviting someone for coffee.
• Join a Small Group: Joining a Bible study or a small group that meets regularly ensures that you aren't just a passive listener, but rather a participant in the church. This is your place to dive deeper into the Word and to apply Sunday's sermon to areas of your own life.  
• Keep a Prayer Journal: You'll be amazed at how often the exact thing that you're praying about comes up in a church service. It's God's way of reminding us that he knows us deeper than we know ourselves, and that He has a plan for us even we ourselves can't see it.