We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. – Romans 5:3-4 NLT
My mentor used to say that happiness comes and goes like a sneeze.
Happiness and joy are often used interchangeably, but they are not the same thing. Happiness is a temporary emotion based on external circumstances. It’s the feeling we get when things are going well in our lives, like when we get a raise at work, when we accomplish a goal, or when we spend time with loved ones. Happiness is fleeting and can be taken away just as quickly as it is given.
Joy is more powerful and permanent than happiness. It’s rooted in the belief that God is good and all-powerful and that all things ultimately work together for our good and His glory. Joy is not dependent on our circumstances, but on our relationship with God. Even in difficult times, those who have joy can find hope and peace because they know and trust in the goodness of God.
In Paul’s letter to the church in Rome, he instructs readers to have joy in trouble because we know God will transform and redeem the temporary situation into something good.
While serving as a missionary in Ethiopia, I was often sick. One time while I was recovering from food poisoning, one of the national pastors came to visit. He told me he was praying for me and had asked God why I was so sick. He said God told him that this illness was one way I could share in His sorrow. Although I was far from happy about being sick, it gave me joy to know that there was purpose behind my suffering and encouragement for my fellow ministers through it all.
When we strive for happiness, we often find ourselves caught up in a never-ending cycle of trying to attain it. We think that if we can get that next promotion, find the perfect relationship, or buy the expensive car, we’ll be happy. But then when we finally attain those things, we discover that the happiness they bring is fleeting, and we’re soon back to searching for the next thing that will make us happy.
But we have access to a more profound sense of well-being and true joy. Even amid challenging circumstances, peace and contentment come from knowing that God is in control and working all things for our good.
Dig Deeper
1. What circumstance are you enduring now that God may be using to build your faith, character, or hope?
2. Can being honest about our troubles aid in bringing joy? Can praising God when we are unhappy be a source of joy?
